I wasn't always this version of me.
Before the wheelchair, the stages and the passport stamps, I was a young man in Kansas City trying to make sense of the world I could see. I dropped out of high school. I hustled. I carried a gun. Survival felt more realistic than opportunity.
I do not tell that story because I am ashamed of him. I understand him. He was becoming what he could see. At 24, I was shot multiple times and paralyzed.
“Pulling himself up from deep despair.” Front page of The Kansas City Star, January 2017. Since then: two TEDx talks, CNN Heroes, Queer Eye, Forbes and Fortune.
I thought my life had just gotten smaller. It became bigger than I ever imagined.
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