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Sixty plus stages. One message: what happens to you is not who you become.

Speaking Reel

See Wesley In Action.

Speaking Topics

The keynotes.

Wesley speaks to rooms that have been through, are going through, or know they will go through, something they did not choose. Every talk is built around the same truth: circumstance is not destiny.

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The Decision You Have to Make Every Day

For leaders, founders, and anyone responsible for keeping a team alive through circumstances they did not choose. Wesley does not get up at 4am because he is inspired. He gets up because he made a decision. The talk is about the decision, modeled.

  • How to reframe disruption as information rather than obstruction
  • The decision that separates people who transform from those who stay stuck
  • Practical tools for maintaining forward momentum in periods of significant uncertainty
  • Why the most effective leaders develop disruption as a skill, not a tolerance
02

The Other Side of the Worst Day

A keynote on survival, choice, and the work of becoming someone your past would not have predicted. For any audience that has been through, is going through, or knows they will go through, something they did not choose.

  • Identifying the specific stories that are limiting individual and team performance
  • The one committed decision that precedes every meaningful personal transformation
  • Building the daily discipline that makes potential visible rather than theoretical
  • How leaders can create environments where people feel capable of doing more
03

Designed for the Person You Don’t See

A working philosophy of inclusion that goes beyond compliance, beyond accommodation, into the kind of culture that compounds. For senior leaders and executive teams building organizations meant to last.

  • Why unconventional backgrounds and experiences produce better strategic decisions
  • How to lead with conviction in the absence of certainty
  • Translating personal experience into organizational insight — without overpersonalizing it
  • Building teams that benefit from diverse perspectives rather than being paralyzed by them
04

The Room You Built Without Them in Mind

A founder’s, leader’s, and architect’s reframe of accessibility as the design principle that makes everything you build better. Lived experience as the strategy, not the side note.

  • The difference between awareness and understanding — and why that gap matters
  • What organizations consistently misunderstand about Black employees and communities
  • How to have more honest conversations about race without defaulting to defensiveness or performance
  • What genuine progress looks like, and how to distinguish it from optics
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Speak Life

The signature keynote. For any audience that needs to hear it from someone who has lived it. Wesley was shot twice at 24. He chose to live. He has spent every day since proving what that choice can build.

  • How design decisions — in products, spaces, and organizations — either expand or limit who can participate
  • The difference between accommodation and genuine inclusion
  • What overlooked populations reveal about the gaps in standard thinking
  • How expanding access tends to improve outcomes for everyone, not just the groups it’s intended to reach

Speaking Stats

60+Engagements Delivered
$256K+Total Speaking Revenue
TEDx Speaker
500K+Social Following
15+States & International
2026-27Now Booking

Formats Available

In-Person Keynote  |  Virtual Keynote  |  Workshop/Breakout Session  |  Fireside Chat/Panel  |  Multi-Day Engagement

What They’re Saying

’He had my mascara running for sure!’

VP of Meeting & Membership, American Public Transportation Association

’Wesley was GREAT. Everyone really enjoyed him. We all loved, ’Don’t give your energy to something that will not make you better.’’

LaDenta Smith, Student Support Coordinator, CalWORKs Association

’For me it was perfect. Wish we had more time for Q&A but that’s all. Wesley was GREAT.’

Merced College

’On behalf of the APA-IL 2020 Conference Committee, I just wanted to extend a big thank you to Wesley for an outstanding keynote address. We are already getting very positive feedback from our members.’

APA Illinois Conference Committee

Past Engagements

A selection of stages
and organizations.

TEDx
Government of Canada
McDonald’s
Penn State
Rutgers University
SHRM
Kaiser Permanente
KC Mayor’s Office
Deloitte
Equinix
Hitachi
Autodesk
University of Tennessee
Burns & McDonnell
Black & Veatch
Barnes-Jewish Hospital
Cox Communications
Washington State University
Colorado State University
Umpqua Bank

“Wesley’s keynote was FANTASTIC!!! Many of the attendees met him around in advance and were excited to hear him speak. Afterwards, there was a line for handshakes, photos and exchanging cards! He was really great, and our members really enjoyed his story!”

— Director of Programming, American Public Transportation Association

 

 

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